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		<title>Love Without Strings</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 11:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rich Dixon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. [Galatians 5:1] How much do we limit ourselves with a misguided sense of obligation? Yesterday I wrote about Service Without Strings and a call to love without expecting anything [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><blockquote><p><em><strong>It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. [Galatians 5:1]</strong></em></p></blockquote>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1590" title="CB034303" src="http://relentlessgrace.com/bouncingback/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/chain_jpg-239x300.jpg" alt="CB034303" width="239" height="300" />How much do we limit ourselves with a misguided sense of obligation?<span id="more-1587"></span></p>
<p>Yesterday I wrote about <a href="http://relentlessgrace.com/bouncingback/2009/10/service-without-strings/">Service Without Strings</a> and a call to love without expecting anything in return. As humans, we tend to put conditions and limits on our love. Even when we really try to remove the strings, I suspect a few always remain. The best we can do is be aware, do our best to remove them, and seek forgiveness when we fail.</p>
<h3>AGAPE</h3>
<p>I wonder whether I act as though God’s love comes with strings attached.</p>
<p>God doesn’t operate under human constraints. He doesn’t love us because He needs us or wants something from us or because He seeks to control us. I don’t have to earn it, and I couldn’t even if I tried. His love just is; that’s His essence and His nature. God’s love comes with no strings attached.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. <strong>God</strong><strong> is love</strong>. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. [1 John 4:16]</em></p></blockquote>
<p>God is love as a noun—He’s perfect, unconditional agape in its purest sense. I wonder if we really get that?</p>
<p>Too frequently, following Jesus carries a stigma of forced compliance, a laundry list of perceived requirements and obligations. But that’s all human legalism. Jesus didn’t call us from one sort of slavery into another. His teaching sets us free by guiding us toward the path for which we were designed.</p>
<p>God’s love is free. It’s a gift of grace. Period. Like any true gift, it’s mine to enjoy. All I need to do is open my hands and accept it. And if I choose to reject the gift, that doesn’t diminish it or make it disappear. It’s still there, waiting for me to unwrap it. But I can’t enjoy the gift and its benefits until I accept it.</p>
<h3>GRATITUDE</h3>
<p>When someone gives me a gift, I say “Thank you.” I don’t do that because it’s an obligation, I do it because I’m thankful. Expressing gratitude isn’t a requirement, it’s a privilege.</p>
<p>I don’t worship and serve to earn God’s love or because He demands or expects it. I don’t do them to retain God’s approval, to make sure He’s in my corner when I need Him.  I do those things from a sense of gratitude.</p>
<p>The sense of guilt and regret that we carry around is not God’s desire. He sent Jesus to free us from all of that. He doesn’t want us to follow Jesus out of some warped compulsion, as though we need to obey the rules to avoid punishment. He doesn’t want reluctant compliance, as though following Him is a required and unwanted burden.</p>
<h3>FREEDOM</h3>
<p>Jesus had the power of the universe at His fingertips. He was completely free to choose, but He selected the difficult path of obedience. I don’t think He felt compelled or obligated. He chose sacrificial love—no strings attached.</p>
<p>God doesn’t need me to follow His rules, and He certainly doesn’t need me to feel guilty when I fail. We make it too complicated, imposing our own maze of formulas and theologies onto His simple framework.</p>
<p>I believe that God smiles when I follow Jesus because Jesus walked the path to true freedom. That’s what He wants for me, and that’s what He wants for you.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>Jesus loves me, this I know, for the Bible tells me so.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>I’m content to leave it at that.</p>
<blockquote><p><em><strong>We will strive to demonstrate God’s love—with no strings attached.</strong></em></p></blockquote>
<p><em><strong>Are you ever tempted to attach strings to God’s love?</strong></em></p>
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		<title>Choices That Define</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 13:06:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rich Dixon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If I’ve learned anything from the accident that confined me to a wheelchair, it’s the principle that my journey is not the product of luck or fate or blind random chance. The path I follow is determined by my choices. Do I believe I made a choice to break my neck? Of course not—my injury [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">If I’ve learned anything from the accident that confined me to a wheelchair, it’s the principle that my journey is not the product of luck or fate or blind random chance.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">The path I follow is determined by my choices.<span id="more-54"></span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">Do I believe I made a choice to break my neck? Of course not—my injury resulted from a freak accident. No one caused me to tumble awkwardly from a roof, and I absolutely do not believe that paralysis was God’s plan for me. Evil rules this world; accidents happen, and too frequently one person acts in ways that harm others.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">I also believe that the world abounds with good. People make decisions that bless and enrich others. With a subtle twist, the result of my fall might have been a bruise or a broken leg. That’s the nature of accidents.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">But the incidents and events I encounter do not determine the nature of my journey. I alone make the choices that define the course.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">The enemy wants me to believe that I’m a product of circumstance, a prisoner of luck or past events. He desperately screams that I’m damaged and broken beyond repair, that I’m a prisoner of misfortune and guilt. His misinformation campaign tells me I’ll never escape from the iron bars forged by accidents and mistakes.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">Like all effective propaganda, this lie begins with truth. I am a broken person. Rocks and boulders litter portions of my path. Some are the result of my own bad decisions, others are just accidents, and a few of them may be intentionally placed by cruelty or evil. But that’s not the entire truth.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt .5in;"><span style="font-size:small;"><strong><em><span style="font-family:Arial;">Jesus said, &#8220;If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.&#8221; John 8: 31b-32</span></em></strong></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">Jesus is the truth; if I know Him, I’m free. I am not hostage to the past, and I’m not a prisoner of the enemy’s lie that attempts to define me by circumstance. I choose Jesus. I know the truth. I’m free. That’s the truth that defines the nature of my journey.</span></span></p>
<p style="margin:0 0 12pt .5in;"><strong><em><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. Galatians 5:1</span></span></em></strong></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">Jesus offers freedom from the past, freedom from bondage to circumstances. I can choose to travel my path in Jesus’ footsteps, and that choice defines the path.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">I still make mistakes, and bad things still happen. But God redeems broken circumstances and broken people—that’s the message of <strong><em>SetFreeToday</em></strong>. </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">Jesus doesn’t offer a magic shield from tragedy, misfortune, and the consequences of error. He simply offers to walk with us, to show us the way of freedom from the enemy’s lie.</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">That’s the truth—the truth that sets us free!</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;"><strong><em>Question: What&#8217;s one issue or event that threatens to define you as a prisoner of circumstance?</em></strong></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">Dylan continues progress that’s encouraging but far too slow. His parents still face difficult medical choices. Please continue to support them in prayer. To put a very cute little face with your prayers, visit Dylan’s website: </span><a title="http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/dylanm" href="http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/dylanm"><span><span style="font-size:small;color:#800080;">http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/dylanm</span></span></a></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0 0 12pt;"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><span style="font-size:small;">Mike and his family confront the difficult reality of life with a spinal cord injury<span>. Thank you for your continued prayers. </span>If you’d like to read more about Mike and offer some words of encouragement, here’s a link to his story: </span><a href="http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/mikekabat"><span style="font-size:small;color:#800080;">http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/mikekabat</span></a><span style="font-size:small;"> </span></span></p>
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